35F Seeking New Friends – Any Tips?
Hey everyone! I’m a 35-year-old woman, single and without kids. Most of my friends are settling down, and my last two single friends just jumped into relationships, leaving me feeling a bit lonely. My love life has been tough—dating apps are pretty disheartening—and since I work from home, it’s hard to meet new people. I’ve tried Bumble BFF, but the conversations often fizzle out, which feels unproductive. I really want to connect with more single friends! Has anyone else experienced this? How did you find a solution?
It sounds like you’re navigating a tough situation, and I totally get why you’re feeling lonely. Making new friends as an adult can be challenging, especially when you’re in a different life stage than most of your friends.
Here are a few ideas that might help you meet new people:
Join Local Clubs or Groups: Look for clubs or groups that align with your interests—book clubs, hiking groups, fitness classes, or even art classes. Check out platforms like Meetup for local events.
Volunteer: Getting involved in community service can connect you with like-minded individuals while also making a positive impact.
Attend Social Events: Look for events in your area, such as workshops, festivals, or co-working spaces that host networking events. These can be great opportunities to meet people.
Take Classes: Sign up for a class (cooking, dance, or any hobby you’re interested in) where you can meet people in a relaxed setting.
Reconnect with Old Friends: Sometimes reaching out to old friends or acquaintances can reignite connections. They might know other singles looking to connect as well.
Online Communities: While dating apps can be tough, consider other online platforms or forums that focus on friendship, like Facebook groups or interest-based communities.
Be Open and Approachable: When out and about, try to engage with people—sometimes a simple smile or small talk can lead to new connections.
Remember, building friendships takes time, so be patient with yourself. You’re definitely not alone in this, and many people are looking for connections! Good luck!