Being a wedding witness is a relatively straightforward but important role. Traditionally, witnesses are required for the legal registration of a marriage to validate the ceremony. If you have been asked, or are considering volunteering, here are some details on what the role entails:
Requirements: The primary requirement is that you must be over the age of legal adulthood, which is 18 in the UK. You don’t need to be a relative or even well-acquainted with the couple.
Responsibilities: Your main responsibility is to observe the ceremony to ensure it is conducted legally. After the vows are exchanged, you will be asked to sign the marriage register or marriage license as an official witness. This is a declaration that you have witnessed the ceremony taking place legally.
Attire and Conduct: There are typically no stringent dress codes or formal requirements for witnesses, though dressing nicely (in line with the occasion) is generally appreciated. Being punctual and attentive is key, as your presence is essential.
Involvement: You may have the opportunity to participate in the ceremony more broadly, like being part of the processional or standing with the couple during the vows, depending on the couple’s preferences.
Benefits: Being a witness is an honour and allows you to be part of a significant moment in the couple’s life. It doesn’t require extensive time commitment and offers a chance to support friends or family in a meaningful way.
If you’re open to this small but significant role, it’s both a kind gesture and a unique experience.