Slough is truly the worst place to be. I moved here about six years ago, and I can’t shake the feeling that my life would have taken a much better path if I hadn’t come to this frustrating town. I’ve always dealt with mental health challenges like depression and social anxiety, and being on the autism spectrum makes social situations even more difficult for me. However, since moving here, those challenges have become even more pronounced.
Back when I lived in my previous town, I had a solid group of friends and a clear direction in my life. All of that vanished the moment I arrived in Slough. While attending school here, I was taken aback by how dismissive my peers were, and, honestly, that attitude seems to permeate the entire town. It feels nearly impossible to find social opportunities unless you grew up here and already have a close-knit circle. The malls and parks are often filled with adults and older people, while the few kids present can be quite unfriendly.
There aren’t any social events, gatherings, or parties; even hobby clubs are surprisingly hard to locate. If you’re not into cricket or football, which I’m not, your options are extremely limited. It makes me wonder—am I the only one who feels this way? Surely I’m not the only one who’s noticed how little there is to do here. The public transport is unreliable, and the sense of community seems nonexistent. Back in my previous town, where the community size was similar to Slough, people knew each other on a personal level, and kids played together in open fields. Here, I rarely witness that sense of familiarity. It’s as if trust is lacking; kids at parks are usually focused on the equipment rather than interacting with one another.
I realize I’m venting a lot, but I have so much frustration bottled up about this disappointing town, and there’s plenty more I could say. It feels like I’m losing my mind here, and I’m absolutely determined to leave the moment I get the chance.
On a side note—where’s the alternative scene in this place? I hardly see any goths, skaters, emos, or anyone with a unique style around here. It’s really disheartening!
It sounds like you’re going through a really tough time, and it’s completely valid to feel frustrated with your situation. Moving to a new place can be incredibly challenging, especially when it feels isolating and unwelcoming. It’s understandable that you’d miss the sense of community and connection you had before.
Slough might not have the social opportunities you’re looking for, but it’s important to remember that there are other people feeling the same way. Sometimes it helps to look online for local groups or events, even if they’re not immediately visible in the community. Websites like Meetup or local Facebook groups can sometimes lead you to people with similar interests or backgrounds.
As for the alt scene, it’s unfortunate if it feels non-existent in your area. Maybe exploring nearby towns or cities could help—sometimes just a little travel can bring you to a more vibrant community. Also, considering hobbies or interests that can be pursued online can connect you to others who share your passions, even if they’re not in your immediate area.
You’re definitely not alone in feeling this way, and it’s great that you recognize the need for change. Keep pushing forward and seeking out those connections; you deserve to be in a place where you feel supported and understood. Hang in there!