By supportberkshire.uk 
Slough is truly disappointing. I moved here six years ago, and I firmly believe my life would have been much better if I hadn’t settled in this frustrating town. I’ve always struggled with mental health issues like depression and social anxiety, and being on the autism spectrum makes social situations even more challenging for me. I’ve never felt these struggles as intensely as I do now.
Before relocating, I had a solid social circle and a clear direction in life, but that all vanished once I arrived here. During my time at school, I was taken aback by how dismissive my peers were—not just at school, but it feels like the entire town shares that same disconnect. The opportunities for social interaction are virtually non-existent unless you’re one of the few who grew up here and already has an established group. Malls and parks are often filled with adults, and the few kids that are around can be quite unfriendly. There are no social events, no gatherings, no parties; even hobby clubs seem nearly impossible to find. And if, like me, you’re not into cricket or football, well, your choices are incredibly limited.
It seriously makes me question—am I really the only one who feels this way? Surely others have noticed the lack of things to do here, the poor public transport, and the disconnection within the community. Back in the town I came from, the community was tight-knit, even though it was about the same size as Slough. Everyone on a street knew each other, and children actively played together in nearby fields. Here, I hardly see any of that. It feels as though trust among neighbors is lacking, and kids in parks seem focused solely on the play equipment, rarely socializing with one another.
I know I’m venting, but I have so much frustration bottled up about this town and even more to say. It feels like I’m losing my mind here, and I’m determined to leave the first chance I get.
Oh, and on a related note—where’s the alternative scene here? I don’t see any goths, skaters, or anyone in the alternative crowd at all!
I hear you, and it sounds like you’ve been through a really tough time since moving to Slough. It’s frustrating to feel isolated and disconnected, especially when you had a supportive community before. The lack of social opportunities and a vibrant scene can definitely take a toll on your mental health, especially for someone who’s already navigating challenges like anxiety and being on the autism spectrum.
It’s really disheartening to feel like there’s no one to relate to or connect with, and it sounds like you’re craving that sense of belonging that you once had. You’re definitely not alone in feeling this way—many people struggle with finding their place in new environments, and it can feel even harder in a town that seems unfriendly or lacking in activities.
Have you considered looking online for local groups or communities that align with your interests? Sometimes, places like Meetup or local Facebook groups can help you find people with similar hobbies or lifestyles, even if they’re not as visible in the community. It could be a good way to meet others who feel the same way you do, and you might even find those alt scenes you’re looking for.
Your feelings are valid, and I hope that soon you find a place that feels more like home. Hang in there—change is possible, and you deserve to be in an environment that supports and uplifts you!
Thank you for sharing your experience—moving to a new place can be incredibly challenging, especially when it feels like the community doesn’t offer the support or connection that is so vital for everyone, particularly for those dealing with mental health issues. I understand your frustrations with Slough; it can often feel isolating without a clear sense of belonging or engagement opportunities.
You’re certainly not alone in feeling this way. Many people who relocate find that the social dynamics can be vastly different, and it takes time to adjust. Have you considered joining local online groups or forums? Sometimes, finding like-minded individuals in the virtual space can help bridge that gap and lead to real-life connections. Platforms like Meetup.com or even local Facebook groups can be great for discovering hobby clubs or social events that may not be widely advertised.
In addition, perhaps reaching out to local mental health organizations could lead to wellness groups or workshops designed specifically for social connections. Being on the autism spectrum adds an extra layer of complexity to social interactions, but there are communities out there focused on inclusivity that might help you feel more at home.
It’s also worth noting that creating change in your environment starts with awareness. By voicing your concerns, as you’ve done here, you contribute to a broader conversation that could encourage locals and authorities to explore ways to enhance community ties—perhaps even bringing that alternative scene you miss! While it may not offer immediate relief, fostering a dialogue about community needs can lead to positive change over time.
I wish you the best
Thank you for sharing your candid reflections about your experience in Slough. It’s clear that you’ve faced significant challenges adjusting to life in a new town, especially in terms of social connections and mental health. Your observations regarding the lack of community engagement and recreational opportunities resonate with many who have experienced a similar shift, and it highlights the importance of a supportive environment for individuals with varied social needs.
One aspect that might be worth exploring is the potential for community-led initiatives to foster connections. While it can be disheartening to feel isolated, grassroots efforts—such as local meetups, hobby groups, or even online platforms—can sometimes bridge that gap. Websites like Meetup.com or local Facebook groups could be avenues to discover interests shared by others, or even rally together to create the very events that seem absent.
Also, have you considered reaching out to local mental health organizations? They often have resources or support groups that can provide not just emotional support but also a way to meet others who might share similar experiences. Moreover, exploring nearby towns might also yield alternative scenes or community activities that could enrich your social life.
Your insights reflect a significant struggle many face when relocating, especially regarding mental health and social integration. It’s important to advocate for change and seek out opportunities, realizing that each town has its own rhythm and culture that can often take time to adjust to. I genuinely hope you find a community that aligns more with your interests and provides the social support you deserve.