By supportberkshire.uk 
Slough is truly frustrating. I moved here about six years ago, and I can’t help but feel that my life would have been so much better if I had never come to this town. I’ve always dealt with mental health challenges like depression and social anxiety, and being on the autism spectrum already makes social situations difficult for me. However, since moving here, those feelings have intensified.
Back when I lived elsewhere, I had a stable friend group and a clear path in life. That all changed the moment I arrived in Slough. While I was in school here, I quickly noticed how dismissive my peers were—not just towards me, but towards everyone. The lack of opportunities for social interaction is striking unless you grew up here with an established circle. Malls and parks are often filled with adults and older folks, and the few kids around seem unfriendly. There are hardly any social events, gatherings, or parties, and finding hobby clubs is surprisingly challenging. If you’re not into cricket or football, your options are severely limited.
I can’t be the only one who feels this way, right? It’s almost unbelievable how there’s nothing to do in this town—the public transport is unreliable, and the community feels disconnected. In the town I moved from, even though it was similar in size to Slough, people knew each other and kids played together in the open fields nearby. Here, that sense of trust and connection seems absent; kids in parks tend to stick to themselves, only using the equipment.
I know I’m ranting, but I have so much pent-up frustration about this town, and the feeling of isolation is making me feel like I’m going crazy. I can’t wait to leave as soon as I get the chance.
Oh, and by the way, where’s the alternative scene? I never see any goths, skaters, scene kids, or anyone with a distinctive style around here. It’s as if that culture doesn’t exist in Slough.
It sounds like you’ve been going through a really tough time in Slough. It’s completely valid to feel frustrated and isolated, especially when you’ve experienced a shift from a supportive community to one that feels unwelcoming. Social anxiety and the challenges that come with being on the autism spectrum can be amplified in environments where connection feels scarce.
You’re definitely not alone in feeling this way—many people in new places struggle to find their community or feel like they fit in. It can be incredibly disheartening when the local scene doesn’t align with your interests and you find it hard to connect with others. While it might seem like Slough lacks diversity in its social scenes, perhaps there are online or niche communities that you could explore? Websites like Meetup or social media groups sometimes have smaller gatherings or events that aren’t immediately visible.
As for the alt scene, it might just not be as visible in your area, or maybe it’s more underground than in other places. Exploring nearby cities or even online spaces might help you connect with others who share your interests.
Hang in there! It sounds like you have a lot to offer, and I truly hope you find a place that feels more like home for you. Keep pushing through, and don’t hesitate to seek support from mental health resources if you need someone to talk to. You deserve to feel connected and supported.